Wednesday, October 7, 2009

NFL star supports Nat'l Equality March

From Huffington Post, David Zirin, October, 6, 2009

Scott Fujita is a star linebacker for the unbeaten New Orleans Saints. He is also a 2001 graduate from the University of California at Berkeley with a BA in political science. In addition to playing for the Saints, he is also is someone proudly raising his family in post-Katrina New Orleans. In the following interview, Scott speaks out about why he is supporting the October 11th National Equality March for Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual and Transgender rights in Washington DC.

Dave Zirin: Scott, you made the decision to lend your name and endorse the National Equality March. Why did you choose to do that?

Scott Fujita: I think for me it was a cause that I truly believe in. By in large in this country the issue of gay rights and equality should be past the point of debate. Really, there should be no debate anymore. For me, in my small platform as a professional football player, I understand that my time in the spotlight is probably limited. The more times you have to lend your name to a cause you believe in, you should do that.

DZ: You’ve said to me in previous discussions that one of the reasons why this issue really resonates with you is because of the issue of adoption, and who gets to adopt children in the United States. Can you speak about that?

SF: A year ago or two years ago, I remember reading about an initiative that was proposed in the state of Arkansas. It was some kind of measure that was aimed at preventing adoptions by single parents. Now, the way I read that and the way that I translated that language was that only heterosexual, married couples could adopt children. As an adopted child that really bothered me. I asked myself, what that is really saying is that the concern with one’s sexual orientation or one’s sexual preference outweighs what’s really important, and that’s finding safe homes for children, for our children. It’s also saying that we’d rather have kids bounce around from foster home to foster home throughout the course of their childhood, than end up in a permanent home, where the parent, whether that person’s single or not, gay or straight. Either way, it doesn’t matter. It’s a home that’s going to be provided for a kid who desperately needs a home. As an adopted child, that measure really bothered me. It just boggles my mind because good, loving homes for any child are the most important thing.

DZ: Now Scott, what makes your stance newsworthy is that people don’t really think of the National Football League as a gay friendly place. How present is homophobia in the locker room on a day in and day out basis?

SF: You know people do call it homophobia, and even that term alone is interesting to me. Because I don’t even know how they call it homophobia, because that’s a fear of the same. It’s more heterophobia. It’s a fear of something different from yourself. Is there still some of that in the locker room? Absolutely. People tell me, hey, that’s pretty courageous. You come out in favor of gay rights. I don’t think it’s that courageous. I think I have an opinion, that I wish was shared by everybody, but I honestly believe that it’s shared by more [football players] than we know because a lot of people just won’t speak out about it. I’m hoping that what [Baltimore Ravens linebacker] Brendon [Ayanbadejo] did, and things like what I’m doing, speaking out a little bit, hopefully more people will step up and acknowledge the fact that hey, its ok to talk about this. Just because I’m in favor of gay rights doesn’t mean that I’m gay or doesn’t mean I’m some kind of “sissy” or something. That’s the language that you hear in locker rooms. I know these guys well. I know for the most part, guys are a lot more tolerant than they get credit for but they’re not comfortable yet speaking out about it. It’s going to come in time. By in large, it’s an opinion that’s shared by more people than are realized. I just wish it was shared by everybody.

DZ: Do you have any concerns that teammates, fans, people will say Scott Fujita may be married and have kids, but maybe on the down low he might really be gay? Do you have concern that teammates, bloggers, the press will talk that kind of smack about you either behind your back or to your face?

SF: No, I have no concern about that whatsoever. I know who I am. My wife knows who I am. I don’t care one way or the other Dave. I imagine that when some of this gets out guys in the locker room might give me a hard time, and they always give me a hard time. They call me the Pinko Communist Fag from Berkeley. I’m used to it. I can take it all.

DZ: You made an interesting comment to me off air about the utter illogic of people who claim to promote God and Jesus but stand four square against any kind of national equality. Can you speak about that please?

SF: I completely respect everyone’s choice of religion. Just because I’m not a very religious guy doesn’t make me right or wrong, or them right or wrong. Everybody has a right to believe in whatever they want. But, I don’t like when people use God or Jesus Christ in this whole debate, if you could even call it a debate. Jesus Christ to me, is probably the most compassionate and revolutionary thinker of all time. Look at his teachings. Look at what he preached. He would not endorse any type of inequality, this type of inhumanity. He would not be on board with that. So please, spare me that argument and saying that hey, the Bible says that it ain’t right, or hey, Jesus Christ wouldn’t buy into this kind of thing. Don’t give me that. That’s not even an argument.

DZ: Is there anything else you’d like to add?

SF: I’m excited about this. You know what Brandon did was great. What he wrote in the Huffington Post was very well said. I’m glad he did it. I know people are applauding him right now for being so courageous. It’s courageous to a certain extent, but it’s just an opinion. I wish more people shared the opinion that he and I have. Like I said, I think more people do than we realize. I just wish more people would be as open as we have been about it. I always describe myself as a pretty open minded and tolerant guy. But the one thing I am most intolerant of is intolerance. That’s the one thing, you want to get under my skin, to start talking about some intolerant stuff, and I’m quick to talk about it.

DZ: Oh, if that’s the case, then we should just expect you guys to beat the Redskins forty two to nothing when you’re in town. The Redskins name will get you all riled up and you’ll have 20 tackles right?

SF: (Laughs) Now you’re trying to get me in trouble.

Anderson Cooper's Heated "Gays In Military" Debate

Last night, Anderson Cooper talked about gays in the military. Cooper started the piece with a clip of PA's Patrick Murphy leading the charge on the house floor last night.

Homophobe Elaine Donnelly and Dan Choi were on with Anderson Cooper to talk about the policy. Check it out.

Dan will be in Washington, D.C. this weekend for the National Equality March. You can meet him in person at the DADT Protest and Memorial for Leonard Matlovich this Saturday at 2 pm.

Congressional Cemetery
1801 E Street SE at Potomac Avenue – Washington DC
[Within walking distance of Potomac Ave & Stadium-Armory DC Metro stations.]

Microsoft gives $100,000 to uphold gay rights

Microsoft has given $100,000 to the effort to uphold a Washington state law that expands gay rights – the campaign's largest single donation.

According to a filing (PDF) with the state's Public Disclosure Commission, Microsoft donated the money Friday to Washington Families Standing Together (WFST), which is working to approve Referendum 71. The measure will ask voters to confirm a law Gov. Chris Gregoire signed in May that gives registered same-sex couples the same benefits as married couples.

"We're just delighted to see Microsoft and other corporations supporting Referendum 71," WFST spokesman Josh Friedes said. "I think that the support that we're seeing from the business community is consistent with Washington's corporate values."

Equality Advocates Pennsylvania Names New Board Members

Equality Advocates Pennsylvania announced several new members of the Board of Directors and the formation of Equality Pennsylvania, a 501(c)(4) advocacy organization whose purpose is to achieve equality for lesbian, gay, bisexual, and transgender (LGBT) Pennsylvanians through legislative and policy reform. Newly elected Equality Advocates Pennsylvania board members are from the Philadelphia, Scranton, Bloomsburg, and Pittsburgh areas.

“I am excited that such talented and committed individuals from across Pennsylvania have joined the Board of Directors,” said Lynn Zeitlin, Executive Director of Equality Advocates Pennsylvania. “Their profound dedication to seeing this organization grow, and the skills each new board member brings to the table is humbling and exciting, and will benefit the thousands of Pennsylvanians we reach each and every year.”

The first statewide board meeting was held on Saturday 26, 2009 in State College during the ground-breaking Pennsylvania Equality Summit. New members recently voted for the formation of Equality Pennsylvania, an umbrella 501(c)(4) organization that will allow staff, volunteers, and donors to have more state-wide influence and directly advocate for legislative and policy priorities for LGBT Pennsylvanians. Jake Kaskey has been named the Policy and Programs Director for Equality Pennsylvania and Equality Advocates Pennsylvania, and will lead and direct legislative and programming activities for both organizations. Mason Lane, recent graduate of Emory University, has been named Eastern Pennsylvania Field Organizer for Equality Pennsylvania.

Plans are underway for the opening of Equality Pennsylvania field offices in Pittsburgh and Harrisburg in 2010 to engage activists at a local-level and increase involvement in coalition-building and advocacy campaigns.

“Forming Equality Pennsylvania allows us to spend greater time and resources directly advocating for LGBT policy priorities in Harrisburg and across Pennsylvania,” said Zeitlin. “We have launched an exciting new organization that will continue to build on the widespread coalition and organizing work for which we are known.”

Equality Advocates Pennsylvania is pleased to announce our newly elected members to the Board of Directors:
Brian K. Sims, Esquire (President), Staff Counsel for Policy & Planning for the Philadelphia Bar Association; Mark L. Usry (Vice President), Associate Professor of Legal Studies at Bloomsburg University; Ann T. Loftus, Esquire (Treasurer), Partner at Zateeny Loftus LLP in Bala Cynwyd; Jay K. Meadway, Esquire (Secretary), Member of Eckert Seamans Cherin & Mellott LLC; Jeff Brauer, Tenured Associate Professor of Social and Behavioral Sciences and Advisor of OPEN/Gay-Straight Alliance at Keystone College in La Plume; Thomas C. Waters, Director of New Media, University of Pittsburgh School of Pharmacy; and M. Saida Agostini, MSW, Targeted Case Manager Supervisor for the Family Shelter Support Team in Philadelphia.

Tuesday, October 6, 2009

Lady Gaga video asking you to join her at the Nat'l Equality March

GOProud Calls on President Obama to Tell Gay Americans the Truth

Wow...this is the strongest thing I have seen yet. Gays are mad - be heard - march on Sunday. National Equality March - Sunday, October 11, 2009.

From GoProud:
Yesterday, the Human Rights Campaign announced that President Barack Obama would address their black-tie dinner in Washington, D.C. this weekend. "We think it is time that President Obama came clean with gay Americans," said Jimmy LaSalvia, Executive Director of GOProud. "Talk is cheap, but unfortunately with this administration talk is all you get. It's time President Obama told gay Americans just how unimportant they are to him and his administration."

GOProud, the only national organization for gay conservatives and their allies, unveiled a new web ad this morning entitled "Come Out Barack." The ad calls on Obama to "come out of the closet" about his record on, and his commitment to, gay issues.

The ad points out that despite capturing almost ¾ of the gay vote, raking in millions of gay dollars, and lofty campaign promises, Obama's record on gay issues has been abysmal. "Whether it's failing to deliver on ‘Don't Ask, Don't Tell' repeal, or his administration's homophobic court filing in support of the Defense of Marriage Act, or his total unwillingness to confront tyrannical anti-gay regimes like Iran - President Obama's record speaks louder than his words," continued LaSalvia.

"Instead of delivering on campaign promises, Obama has chosen to play politics and trade away the promises made to gay families in secret backroom deals," said LaSalvia.

"It is time President Obama came clean and was held accountable for his failures. GOProud is committed to making sure the gay community, and the rest of America, knows the truth about President Obama's record and his priorities," concluded LaSalvia.

National Equality March Route


The National Equality March officially kicks off at 12:00 noon on October 11, 2009. The approximate distance is 2.33 miles from start to finish. Be sure and get your Metro passes as soon as you get into town, to avoid hour long lines that form at the ticket kiosks during larger demonstrations. http://www.wmata.com

* Gather on 15th Street at “I” (Eye) Street – we will be staging in the street and 15th between “I” Street and “M” Street will be closed for this purpose. The March will kick off from 15th and I Street, right near McPherson Square (Metro stops close by are at McPherson Square, Farragut West – both Blue and Orange Lines, and Farragut North – Red Line)
* From there we go South on 15th to “H” Street
* West on “H” Street to 17th Street
* South on 17th Street to Pennsylvania Avenue (closed portion)
* Pennsylvania Avenue (closed portion) – right past the White House – to 15th Street
* South on 15th Street to Pennsylvania Avenue South
* East on Pennsylvania Avenue South, all the way to the U.S. Capitol West Lawn for the National Equality March Rally.

Lady Gaga wants you on the bus!


Love this photo of Lady Gaga urging people to get to Washington, D.C. for the National Equality March this Sunday (Oct. 11th). If there ever was a time to march for our equality - this is it...NO EXCUSES!

MANNA pie tasting returns to Smile in November

MANNA and Nightlifegay.com will team up again on November 5th for another pie tasting event at Nightlifegay.com's Smile Happy Hour. MANNA will offer samples of each variety of pie it makes for their Pie in the Sky Thanksgiving holiday pie drive fundraiser. The samples are free of charge, and attendees are encouraged to order their holiday pie at the event. Last year the event sold approximately 40 pies for the charity drive....lets sell more this year!

Smile Happy Hour takes place each 1st Thursday of the month at Tavern on Camac (243 S. Camac Street - Philadelphia).

Drag Queen Donna Sachet sings the Nat'l Anthem for MLB


Donna Sachet is the first drag performer to sing the National Anthem at the opening of a Major League Baseball game - The San Francisco Giants vs. The Arizona Diamondbacks on 09/29/2009.

Russian court rules against lesbian couple

A Moscow court ruled against two lesbians seeking to become Russia's first legally married gay couple. Irina Fedotova-Fet and Irina Shipitko said the Tverskoi District Court upheld a decision by the city's civil registry that said Russian law defined marriage as between a woman and a man.
"We want recognition of our relationship by society and the state. We are a family already, we live together and share household chores," Shipitko said. "We also would like to have children. That is why we want legal recognition of our union."
Nikolai Alexeyev, a longtime Russian gay rights activist who is serving as the women's lawyer, told reporters that they plan to fight the ruling.
"We understand quite well that it is a long road that must be taken before such unions will be recognized. But I have no doubt this recognition will come," he said.
The two women said they planned to fly to Canada later this month to marry and then return to Russia, in a bid to force authorities to recognize the marriage. (ap)

Monday, October 5, 2009

Obama not sure about "march", but he can make HRC function

President Barack Obama will not confirm his attendance for Sunday's National Equality March on Washington, D.C., but he is able to confirm he will be with HRC on Saturday. Barack Obama will deliver the keynote address at the 13th Annual National Dinner in D.C. on Saturday.

Yes, the same HRC that has accomplished virtually nothing in the last 15 year...or more. Does this pairing remind you of anything??

Barack Obama and HRC sitting in a tree:
K-I-S-S-I-N-G
First comes love,
then comes marriage,
then comes no civil rights in the golden carriage!

Leonard Matlovich Memorial - National Equality March


On Saturday, October 10, 2009 - the weekend of the National Equality March for LGBT civil rights - there will be a protest and memorial service honoring Leonard Matlovich, the first openly-gay person to fight the military's ban on gay people. It will be held at 2pm at the Congressional Cemetary in Washington D.C. Join Sixth Army Soldier of the Year Jose Zuniga, 1993 comrades-in-arms former Navy Lt. Tracy Thorne-Belgand and former Army CPT. Tanya Domi, Movement legends Frank Kameny, Rev. Troy Perry, and David Mixner, and todays newest leaders in the fight against Dont Ask, Dont Tell, Dan Choi, Anthony Woods, Eric Alva, and Alex Nicholson for an historic multigenerational protest against DADT. Music by Potomac Fever from the Gay Mens Chorus of Washington DC.

Earlier that day on Saturday, October 10, there will be a wreath laying at the tomb of the unknown soldier at 12pm at Arlington National Cemetery in Arlington, VA (across the Potomac River next to Washington D.C.). Please join Lt. Dan Choi and others for this event.

DVLF head moves to Mazzoni

Philadelphia's Delaware Valley Legacy Fund will loose its executive director at the end of the month. Perry Monastero, who has headed the organization since its inception, is heading to Philadelphia's Mazzoni Center as the director of development.

Lady Gaga to march on Sunday

Lady Gaga announced this past week at a National Equality March fundraiser in NYC that she would be marching in Washington on October 11th. Check it out.

March on Sunday to let Obama know the time is now!


When Obama thinks it is time?? Really? Join the National Equality March this coming Sunday in Washington, D.C. to let the President know the time is now!

President Barack Obama will focus "at the right time" on how to overturn the "don't ask, don't tell" ban on gays serving openly in the military, his national security adviser said Sunday.

"I don't think it's going to be — it's not years, but I think it will be teed up appropriately," James Jones said.

The Democratic-led Congress is considering repealing the 1993 law. Action isn't expected on the issue until early next year.

Senate Majority Leader Harry Reid, D-Nev., recently wrote Obama and Defense Secretary Robert Gates asked to share their views and recommendations on the contentious policy. In Sept. 24 letters, Reid also asked for a review of the cases of two U.S. officers who were discharged from the military because of their sexuality.

"At a time when we are fighting two wars, I do not believe we can afford to discharge any qualified individual who is willing to serve our country," Reid wrote.

Jones said Obama "has an awful lot on his desk. I know this is an issue that he intends to take on at the appropriate time. And he has already signaled that to the Defense Department. The Defense Department is doing the things it has to do to prepare, but at the right time, I'm sure the president will take it on."

As a candidate, Obama signaled support for repealing the law. To the disappointment of gay-rights supporters, he has yet to made a move since taking office in January. The White House has said it will not stop the military from dismissing gays and lesbians who acknowledge their sexuality.

Last year, 634 members of the military were discharged for being gay, or .045 percent of the active-duty U.S. force, according to an Aug. 14 congressional report.
(ap)(AP Photo/Susan Walsh, file)

Saturday, October 3, 2009

Weekend Break - Check back on Monday!

Upcoming Nightlifegay.com Events:

Get your tickets today for Gay Community Night at Terror Behind the Walls - the nation's #1 haunted house!! Tickets are only on sale till October 20th - buy your tickets now.

Thursday, October 1, 2009

Youth to be represented at Nat'l Equality March


This is the official video of the National Equality March LGBTQ Youth Event. On October 11, 2009, citizens from around the U.S. will come to Washington D.C. to demand equality for the LGBTQ community.

The youth are the truly innocent and forgotten victims of our national policies of homophobia, bigotry and hate. 50% of all gay and lesbian youth report that their parents reject them due to their sexual orientation, 26% are forced to leave home because of it. Over 30% of all reported teen suicides each year are committed by gay and lesbian youth. 34% of students who described themselves as gay, lesbian or bisexual reported being the target of anti-gay harassment or violence at school or on the way to or from school.

As we gather in Washington, we are not just fighting for love and equality in the present, but also for their future.

Phila. Film Society produces 18.5 without TLA

After an nasty battle with TLA (sponsor) over the direction of the Philadelphia Film Festival this past Spring, the Philadelphia Film Society has announced the 18 ½ Philadelphia Film Festival will take place this year on October 15-19, 2009. The festival will be smaller and is being produced six months after its originally scheduled date - hence the "1/2".

LAW ABIDING CITIZEN will open the Festival, with director F. Gary Gray and additional special guests in attendance, while PRECIOUS: Based on the Novel "Push" by Sapphire will close the Festival, with director Lee Daniels and additional special guests in attendance. In between, the Festival will feature many incredible premieres, including THE MEN WHO STARE AT GOATS, SERIOUS MOONLIGHT, GOOD HAIR, RED CLIFF, and the controversial ANTICHRIST. The Festival will also highlight DARE and TENURE, two films shot in and around the greater Philadelphia region.

TLA will still hold its 2nd Cinefest this coming Spring and will still produce the gay & lesbian QFest in July.

Pentagon study condemns ‘Don’t Ask, Don’t Tell’ policy

From the Boston Globe:
An article in the Pentagon’s top scholarly journal calls in unambiguous terms for lifting the ban on gays serving openly in the armed forces, arguing that the military is essentially forcing thousands of gay men and women to lead dishonest lives in an organization that emphasizes integrity as a fundamental tenet.

The article in the upcoming issue of Joint Force Quarterly, which is published for the chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff, was written by an Air Force colonel who studied the issue for months while a student at the National Defense University in Washington and who concludes that having openly gay troops in the ranks will not hurt combat readiness.

The views do not necessarily reflect those of Pentagon leaders, but their appearance in a publication billed as the Joint Chiefs’ “flagship’’ security studies journal signals that the top brass now welcomes a debate in the military over repealing the 1993 law that requires gays to hide their sexual orientation, according to several longtime observers of the charged debate over gays in the military.

“After a careful examination, there is no scientific evidence to support the claim that unit cohesion will be negatively affected if homosexuals serve openly,’’ writes Colonel Om Prakash, who is now working in the office of Defense Secretary Robert M. Gates. “Based on this research, it is not time for the administration to reexamine the issue; rather it is time for the administration to examine how to implement the repeal of the ban.’’

Pink Pub Crawl is back on Thankgiving Eve


Philadelphia's largest GLBT pub crawl is back on Thanksgiving Eve. The crawl begins at 9pm from Stir Lounge (1705 Chancellor St), then makes its way to "Q" (formerly Bump)at 10:30pm, Woody's at 11:30pm and finally ending at Voyeur (beginning at 12:30am). Dress in "PINK" and the crawl only costs you $20 - don't and it will cost you $30. With admission you get 1 call drink, beer or win at the first 3 stops and FREE admission to Voyeur. Tickets are only available the night of the event at Stir and Q during their designated times.